Sarah Silverman answers some love and sex questions from A.V. Club readers
Compiled by Josh Modell
Comedian/actress Sarah Silverman doesn't play well with others; she's far funnier when left to her own devices than when she's contributing to someone else's vision. So small parts in big movies (School Of Rock, There's Something About Mary, School For Scoundrels) don't suit her weird, sometimes scatological, usually offensive sensibilities. Jesus Is Magic, a one-woman film that combined her stand-up with musical skits, does, and she's parlayed that into Comedy Central's The Sarah Silverman Program, a weekly half-hour that turns the idea of a sitcom into a ridiculously funny farce. (She meets "black God," she poops in her pants, she befriends the homeless, etc.) In honor of Valentine's Day, Silverman agreed to answer questions about love and/or sex submitted by readers to the avclub.com blog.
My girlfriend confessed recently to wanting to spread peanut butter in my armpit and lick it out. Being "normal," I'm totally grossed out at the prospect, but I'm really into this girl. But this thing of hers sorta really freaks me out. I should probably be writing to Dan Savage, but you're my girlfriend's fave. If you were me, what would you do?
Jiffy Boy
Sarah Silverman: I would tell her that you just read Glamour magazine, and they said that balls are the new armpit. Then take it from there.
Sarah, you've mentioned before how you're hirsute. So am I. I let my insecurity about it keep me from getting any action. How do you cope and be the hot, loved chick that you are?
Scratchy
SS: Good question. Well, if I'm going to wear a dress, I wax my forearms. That way I don't look like a transvestite or a straight man in a dress. Other than that, I use my great personality and also shave everywhere.
Like most women, my girlfriend is very self-conscious about her body. When we "do it," she insists on turning the lights out. I love her body and want to actually see it, but no amount of reassurance or pleading will change her mind. How do I convince her to leave the lights on?
Anonymous
SS: Just wondering if maybe it's occurred to you that it's you she doesn't want to see naked? I say keep the lights off. If you need to see her body, get night-vision goggles. Also, that way less of your face will show. It's a win-win!
My girlfriend and I are about to have a baby, which is cool. But we have a pretty small apartment, and the baby will be sleeping in our room. Assuming my girlfriend wants to have sex with me again someday, how long can we get away with having sex in the same room as our child?
Drperky
SS: Great question. Everyone's had to have sex with a sleeping roommate in the room. It's okay through the formative years, and even beyond. What's the worst that can happen? Your baby grows up to be a gorgeous stripper or a hooker with a heart of gold? I'd go up to 13 years. Hopefully by then, your doctor career will take off and you'll get a second room.
Sarah, what will sex look, sound, and smell like 500 years from now? Will we be using virtual-reality helmets? Will there be any taboos left? Will animatronic life-size Sarah Silverman dolls be readily available?
HermansHead
SS: Great question, and GREAT show, HermansHead! In 500 years, a lot of things will be different, but even though there'll be jet packs and super-futuristic chips in our heads, a lot of the future will look almost like the past, like Mad Max or Blade Runner. Sex will be something that even the most conservative of people do three times a day, like meals. The healthiest of people will even have really quick sex five or six times a day. It's gonna be weird. Be glad you'll be dead.
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