Savage Love Podcast

Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your questions on the internets. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, call 206-201-2720.

Latest Episodes

  • Savage Love Episode 303

    Released 08.14.12

    Meet the Savages! This week, in deepest, darkest Iowa, Dan sat down with his sister and two brothers to discuss strippers, the word "vagina," and good ol’ fashioned dog-fucking, among other things.  Just like you do with your family, right?...

  • Savage Love Episode 302

    Released 08.07.12

    Damaged buttholes? Penis cracking? Molluscum contagiosum? Dr. Vy Chu fears nothing! Hear Dan and the venerable men's health expert discuss everything under where the sun don't shine.  And don't worry ladies. There are some gems in here for you too....

  • Savage Love Episode 301

    Released 07.31.12

    Isn't it sad when your kink makes you sad? A woman who likes (and even needs) to be cuckolded wishes her kink wasn't all about her own humiliation.  In another call of cuckolding weirdness, a woman's boyfriend wants her to sleep with her fuck-buddy w...

  • Savage Love Episode 300

    Released 07.24.12

    We're back! And what did we come back to? Online dishonesty, webcam addiction, and incest paranoia.  Ah, you people. It's nice to be home. 206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by the magical Stack Soap. Stack Soap allows you to merge yo...

  • Savage Love Episode 299.5

    Released 07.17.12

    Sorry folks- no show this week. Dan is on "vacation," in deepest, darkest Europe, "relaxing." Or something.   Call us and cry about it: 206-201-2720 See you next week. 

  • Savage Love Episode XX

    Released 07.17.12

    Sorry folks- no show this week. Dan is on "vacation," in deepest, darkest Europe, "relaxing." Or something.   Call us and cry about it: 206-201-2720 See you next week. 

  • Savage Love Episode 299

    Released 07.10.12

    A man's boyfriend's super-hot ex-lover is coming back to town. Should he feel jealous and insecure when they go out for drinks, or start scheming to make a three-way happen?  A man got dumped by his girlfriend. He demanded that she submit an explana...

  • Savage Love Episode 298

    Released 07.03.12

    A most magnanimous woman is married to a man who likes trans women. Instead of buying her an anniversary present, he bought himself time with a trans dominatrix.

  • Savage Love Episode 297

    Released 06.26.12

    Do you know what a "'bater" is? A 'bater only wants to masturbate. No sex. Now, now would a relationship between a 'bater and a sex-loving fella work out, you think?  A bride-to-be enlists Dan's advice on how to bring her rape fantasy to life on the...

  • Savage Love Episode 296

    Released 06.19.12

    This week, we present a live recording of the Savage Lovecast. We recorded the fundraiser show in Seattle at the Neptune Theatre, along with musical guests Garfunkel and Oates and a special appearance by Washington State senator Ed Murray.   And the ...

  • Savage Love Episode 295

    Released 06.12.12

    Naughty butt plug! Why must you fly out of my bottom?! A lesbian has a male best friend—her “dyke Mike.” But this gentleman has been sending her rambling missives of a highly sexual nature. Is it the pain medication he’s currently...

  • Savage Love Episode 294

    Released 06.05.12

    Isn't it sad when a lady can't come? Hear two tales of ladies who can't come with another person involved, and Dan's elegant solutions.  You know what else is sad? When a man can't get horny. That's sad. Maybe he just needs rest and a sandwich. ...

  • Savage Love Episode 293

    Released 05.29.12

    Ugh! She's so BORED. Bored of tying up her boyfriend and having sex with another woman. Bored with calling him a "little bitch." The real problem is that he won't lift a finger to give her what she wants.

  • Savage Love Episode 292

    Released 05.22.12

    Gentle listeners: Are you sitting down? Now that you and Dan have been communing lo these past six years, he feels that he can trust you enough to share a little secret.

  • Savage Love Episode 291

    Released 05.15.12

    Dan advises a recovering alcoholic on how to let people know why he's drinking ginger ale in the bar without causing the date to come to a screeching halt. Is it better to admit that you've been dumped or keep on circling around trying to seek "closure"? ...

  • Savage Love Episode 290

    Released 05.08.12

    A woman gets paid to dress up like a superhero and roll around in bed. Nothing sexual. Is she obligated to tell her boyfriend about this revenue stream? A 40-year-old man is dating a 20-year-old man who was a friend of his kids from a previous marriage. I...

  • Savage Love Episode 289

    Released 05.01.12

    How do you hit on someone with Aspergers? This week on the Savage Lovecast, Dan speaks with Maxine Aston, author and relationship counselor who specializes in relationships and Aspergers Syndrome.

  • Savage Love Episode 288

    Released 04.24.12

    Bisexuals! Grab your pitchforks and fire up those torches. This show is all about you.  Also, does a BJ get you into the Mile High Club?  A man who will be staying with his sister-in-law for a few months wonders if he needs to keep his carnal ...

  • Savage Love Episode 287

    Released 04.17.12

    Dan counsels a very GGG woman on how she can lovingly kick her boyfriend in the nuts.   Rape scenarios are tricky, aren't they? You have to plan and communicate clearly, or you might end up in jail. But does it kill the sexy to say, "Okay, honey, I'l...

  • Savage Love Episode 286

    Released 04.10.12

    A gay man is being stalked by a sexually aggressive woman… in his DREAMS. Another man is being stalked by an actual lady in a waking nightmare. Also, serious conversations about domestic violence and confronting politicians with little knit tchotch...

  • Savage Love Episode 285

    Released 04.03.12

    Dan welcomes his old MTV tour wife, the ever-gigglin' Lucy to talk about getting dumped, gender queers and furry pride.  Let Lucy's infectious merriment fill your heart with love.  206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by Adaman...

  • Savage Love Episode 284

    Released 03.27.12

    How can a chronically adulterous lass embark on an open relationship when she is also chronically jealous?  When he was a youth, he and his cousin used to play strip poker. Now the cousin is all grown up, a born again Christian, and pissed. Should ma...

  • Savage Love Episode 283

    Released 03.19.12

    When lesbians flirt: What is a red-blooded lad to think when his lesbian pal makes goo-goo eyes at him?  Are parents today too sex-positive? Dan and sex educator Amy Lang talk about water sports among 3-year-olds and a bad place to put Legos.  A...

  • Savage Love Episode 282

    Released 03.12.12

    Introducing… the Panty Bandit! Coming to a bed near you?  A woman is enjoying a friends-with-benefits relationship. But the lad always bolts out of bed postcoitus without so much as a quick kiss good-bye. Would a little cuddling kill him?...

  • Savage Love Episode 281

    Released 03.06.12

    We begin our podcast with arguably the sleaziest caller we've ever encountered. It really has to be heard to be believed.  How can you help a friend when she's hung up on a psycho?  To aid a man who's wife has no libido whatsoever, Dan enlists t...

  • Savage Love Episode 280

    Released 02.29.12

    Yet another snooping girlfriend finds a cache of straight anal porn on her boyfriend's computer. Does this mean he should try sleeping with men?   Poor babysitter: The 5-year-old she was taking care of accidentally watched some homemade porn starring...

  • Savage Love Episode 279

    Released 02.17.12

    A lesbian's partner shows her love by paying for everything. Unfortunately, she's kind of a jerk otherwise.  A man can't please his lady in bed unless he's blasted drunk. When sober, he worries that she's too tender and shy for the rough treatment sh...

  • Savage Love Episode 278

    Released 02.14.12

    The doctor is IN. Kindly, long-suffering Doctor Barak is back to answer your medical questions and submit to Dan's unique brand of torture. Dan and Doc discuss smoking weed while pregnant, herbal abortions, torn penises, and more. Some choice lines to lis...

  • Savage Love Episode 277

    Released 02.07.12

    This week on the Savage Lovecast, a topless maid agonizes over her role in the aiding and abetting of infidelity. A man's sister employs a nanny. The nanny is hot. Should he shtup the nanny? And hear Dan's timeless Valentine's Day advice. Hint: It holds t...

  • Savage Love Episode 276

    Released 01.31.12

    Swoon! It's Ira Glass, off his perch at This American Life, to join Dan in dispensing both sex advice and fart jokes.  It's Ira as you've never heard him before... Don't miss this one. 206-201-2720     This podcast is brought to you by Ext...

  • Savage Love Episode 275

    Released 01.20.12

    We've been getting lots of calls about losing one's virginity. Dan addresses a couple of them. Hey, 17-year-old boy: The tech-savvy at-risk youth would very much like to go back in time and lose our virginity to you. A man catches a lot of heat for being ...

  • Savage Love Episode 274

    Released 01.17.12

    A newly employed dishwasher wants to have sex with both of his bosses because he suspects they may be swingers.

  • Savage Love Episode 273

    Released 01.06.12

    If your lady has a dream about being penetrated by five dicks, does that mean she actually wants to be penetrated by five dicks? Have you ever masturbated for a pretty lady on Chatroulette? Well, here's a man with a pretty face who looks a lot like a lady...

  • Savage Love Episode 272

    Released 01.03.12

    Dan speaks with Dr. James Cantor, professor of Psychiatry at the University of Toronto, about pedophilia.

  • Savage Love Episode 271

    Released 12.27.11

    It's the long-anticipated holiday horror show!  We asked for your tales of holiday lovin' gone wrong, and you delivered in force. You'll hear some freaky shit, a cautionary tale or two, and even some holiday gift ideas!!! Thanks for calling, listenin...

  • Savage Love Episode 270

    Released 12.20.11

    Dan speaks with cancer physician and researcher Dr. Ted Teknos about the HPV vaccine.  A GGG married woman acts out a cuckolding fantasy for her husband, and discovers that she likes it an awful lot. He- not so much. Can she make it work, or is it d...

  • Savage Love Episode 269

    Released 12.13.11

    She received some flowers from her ex for her birthday. Does her current boyfriend have the right to freak the fuck out?  A woman wants to be splashed with her husband's semen, and have the semen be "live." How can they store jizz so that it remains ...

  • Savage Love Episode 268

    Released 12.06.11

    It's Lucy's last show. Hats off to Dan's brave, plucky assistant. Small hands- big heart.  The calls! Wood. He shows it and grows it at the earliest opportunity. Is this a turn-off or something to cultivate?  A woman discovers her boyfriend has ...

  • Savage Love Episode 267

    Released 11.29.11

    Dan converses with a former rent boy, and you get to listen in. Should a man with a jealousy problem date his neighbor who happens to be a stripper?  Gather round, listeners, and hear the spooky tale of the lover who still carries a torch for his dea...

  • Savage Love Episode 266

    Released 11.21.11

    Lucy is back to help Dan navigate his way through questions about dicks snapping right off, living with sex addiction, and a triad of soft weenies.  Happy Thanksgiving, one and all.  206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by Adamand...

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