Savage Love Podcast

Latest Episodes

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  Savage Love Episode 264

  Released 11.08.11

  Baby? I know we don't know each other all that well, but I dig you so much that I want you to sleep with another man.

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  Savage Love Episode 263

  Released 10.31.11

  A woman is in an unacknowledged fuck-buddy situation. He calls her up to "watch a movie or something," and then they have sex.

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  Savage Love Episode 262

  Released 10.24.11

  This week, Dan is joined by his animal handler, Lucy! Lucy can answer questions about shit skid marks left on couches, cheating lying girlfriends, jerk dom creeps AND do Dan's laundry with a smile.  She is truly a wonder.  Call us with your qu...

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  Savage Love Episode 261

  Released 10.18.11

  Come hear the tale of the woman who wanks like a toddler. Remember that boy who got booted out of the Christian singing group "Psalm 100" for being gay? Dan chats him up a bit.  How can a fickle bisexual chicken take the plunge and suck some cock alr...

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  Savage Love Episode 260

  Released 10.11.11

  "No sex before the game!" Is this bit of conventional wisdom wise?  A gay man wonders if his date being specifically NOT invited to a family wedding is in any way bigoted.  A man and woman are married only in the legal sense. But they still li...

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  Savage Love Episode 259

  Released 10.05.11

  Ladies: How should you react when your boyfriend accuses you of cheating on him because he can feel that your vagina is looser than he remembers it being?

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  Savage Love Episode 258

  Released 09.23.11

  Apparently, there is someone more qualified to answer your filthy questions than Dan Savage. The identity of Dan's replacement may shock you… A man's buddy is accused of sexual assault by an acquaintance. The caller is dubious, but pretends to beli...

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  Savage Love Episode 257

  Released 09.20.11

  It's the fairy dust show! Can Dan Savage reach into his man-purse, pull out a handful of pink fairy dust, sprinkle it all over your sexual problems, and cure you of whatever ails you?   No he cannot.   206-201-2720   Today's episode is brou...

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  Savage Love Episode 256

  Released 09.09.11

  This week the Lovecast is honored to welcome Dr. Anna Kaminski, medical director from Planned Parenthood.

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  Savage Love Episode 255

  Released 09.06.11

  The Savage Lovecast is delighted to welcome Mistress Matisse, Seattle's charming and terrifying dominatrix. Can sadists get it on with other sadists? Is domming a viable career choice? Can the master-slave relationship work when it's time to do the dishes...

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  Savage Love Episode 254

  Released 08.26.11

  After a young queer woman came out to her high-school friends, one of them utterly rejected her and expressed retroactive squeamishness for all the hugs they ever shared.

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  Savage Love Episode 253

  Released 08.23.11

  A son is more than a little jealous that his dad has multiple orgasms, and prays that perhaps it's genetic?  Research scientist and hymen expert Debby Herbenick confirms that *spoiler alert* the hymen does indeed exist.  You think you got it bad...

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  Savage Love Episode 252

  Released 08.15.11

  A woman who enjoys vanilla sex feels discriminated against by her kinky, poly posse.  A man recently home from Iraq doesn't know how to speak gently to the ladies anymore.  And hear the tale of Mike's friend's wife's nipples and the trouble they...

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  Savage Love Episode 251

  Released 08.05.11

  Gentle listeners of the podcast, it pains us to have to remind you to TEND TO YOUR UNICORN. In other words, if you have secured a lovely lady who is willing to be the third in your three-way, you are obligated to do her the courtesy of providing her with ...

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  Savage Love Episode 250

  Released 07.27.11

  What is the proper etiquette when you are offered $20 on the street to perform a sex act? A female sex worker in a new relationship wants to leave the life. Her boyfriend wants her to leave the life. But the money is so damn good! Can she ask him to suppo...

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  Savage Love Episode 249

  Released 07.25.11

  The open-minded father of a 14-year-old lesbian wonders if he should allow her to have sleepovers with her girlfriend.Dan's position on the Mormon poly lifestyle… revealed!Is it intolerable to dump your boyfriend right when he's about to go into su...

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  Savage Love Episode 248

  Released 07.15.11

  A meddling, deluded mother changes the relationship status on her gay son’s Facebook page to say he’s interested in women.

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  Savage Love Episode 247

  Released 07.12.11

  A bi man and his lady enjoyed glorious bi-friendly sex until they had a baby. Then she demanded an immediate end to his bisexuality for fear he isn't a good enough role model for their son.

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  Savage Love Episode 246

  Released 07.05.11

  Dan Savage? What is the connection between homosexuals and unicorns?  Can a gay man make out with a straight girl? Can he do that?? A woman complains that her boyfriend lays out a mighty sexy scene when he's texting her, but when it's time to actua...

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  Savage Love Episode 245

  Released 06.28.11

  Seriously now. What's the most environmentally friendly way to dispose of your jiz?  When encountering a man masturbating under cover of bushes in a public park, is it your responsibility to report him to the authorities?  A woman is having mi...

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  Savage Love Episode 244

  Released 06.21.11

  More rantings about a man named Weiner. Are garter belts inherently sexist, and is there a male equivalent?  Dan interviews Ogi Ogas, co-author of "A Billion Wicked Thoughts"  in which two computational neuroscientists embark on the largest stud...

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  Savage Love Episode 243

  Released 06.14.11

  Is it wrong to contact the subsequent lovers of your lying, cheating, abusive ex and compare notes? What if one of the notes is that you have herpes?  A closeted lesbian is worried that if she comes out it will impact her parents- pillars in their c...

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  Savage Love Episode 242

  Released 06.07.11

  How do you ask your lady if her boobs are the work of god or man?  A woman engaged to be married wants to help a gay couple she knows by being a surrogate mother. Her fiancé isn't having it. Who should prevail?  Poppers! Deep fried snac...

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  Savage Love Episode 241

  Released 05.31.11

  Today we are joined by the venerable athiest, science-lovin', feminist blogger Jen McCreight who has a thing or two to say about skepticism.

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  Savage Love Episode 240

  Released 05.24.11

  This week we are joined by the good doctor Vy Chu- a specialist in gay men's health.  So there's a lot of talk about butts.  And balls. 206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 50 percent off almost any item...

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  Savage Love Episode 239

  Released 05.17.11

  What does a neglectful drunk have to do to win his wife back?  A man with a doll fetish wonders if his turn-on for the "little girl" look automatically makes him a pedophile.  An attractive man with a homely girlfriend wonders if he's missing ...

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  Savage Love Episode 238

  Released 05.09.11

  Too much information? A woman confides in a friend that she is having an affair. Now the friend feels on the hook with this unwanted knowledge.

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  Savage Love Episode 237

  Released 05.02.11

  What happens when you're turned on by rape fantasies and then you actually get raped? Time to find a new fantasy.  Marijuana! Is it Viagra for women?  A transvestite in Kansas: A college crossdresser finds it hard to meet women who will accep...

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  Savage Love Episode 236

  Released 04.26.11

  A woman is having an affair with a man who is probably gay. Should she help him to cross the line into homo-land, or butt out and find somebody who digs chicks?  A man is dating a gal who is perfect in every way except for one little problem. She is...

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  Savage Love Episode 235

  Released 04.19.11

  OMG! Don't you hate it when you go to a gay bar, make out with TWO gay men (even though you are a woman), and then totally don't remember it because you were, like, too drunk? How do you tell your on-again, off-again lover that you are suddenly into kink?...

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  Savage Love Episode 234

  Released 04.12.11

  It's the one-minute wonder show! All calls less than one minute long! All answers less than one minute long!

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  Savage Love Episode 233

  Released 04.05.11

  When he first met his future wife in college, she was a sex machine. Now their sex life is vanilla and boring.

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  Savage Love Episode 232

  Released 03.29.11

  How to engineer the perfect fuck-buddy. She has him somewhat trained. But he won't buy his own condoms, and he won't switch and let her sub for a while.

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  Savage Love Episode 231

  Released 03.22.11

  We start the show off with a little wedding drama. The best man turns out to be a skirt-chasing cad. Should the bride & groom boot him out of the wedding or plug their noses and let him stand up?    A married man isn't getting any at home. C...

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  Savage Love Episode 230

  Released 03.09.11

  At the age of 22, a married woman is sick of sex with her husband and wants to branch out. Can Dan save her marriage?  How can you avoid the typical pitfalls of a friends-with-benefits relationship?  After a sadistic lover violated her safe word...

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  Savage Love Episode 229

  Released 03.04.11

  Mike Huckabee? You're not going to like this show one bit.   When friends are dickheads: two tales of nasty pals. One who insults his girlfriend and treats her poorly. Another who writes about his girlfriend on a sex blog against her wishes. Eeesh. ...

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  Savage Love Episode 228

  Released 03.01.11

  A gay man who used to be bullied in high school testifies that when you get older, not only does it get better…it gets interesting.    Three tales of porn: A man's long distance girlfriend forbids him from watching porn. A porn-friendly l...

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  Savage Love Episode 227

  Released 02.22.11

     A crazy bitch who goes out dancing on a second date with a guy she really likes ends up making out with a completely different guy on the dance floor, and then she worries about being perceived as a "crazy bitch." "I want to do anal right," ...

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  Savage Love Episode 226

  Released 02.11.11

  It's the long-awaited episode with Mistress Matisse! Meet one of the few people who can make Dan Savage squirm. Topics covered: a sub who scares her dom's dick; "skin play"; unsexy, unwilling hostage situations; and a lot more. Faggot + dominatrix = delig...

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  Savage Love Episode 225

  Released 02.08.11

  Come hear the tale of the lying bisexual who chickened out and denied her bisexuality to a friend. Now she's paying the price.  An ex-Mormon teen wants to have some casual hook-ups. But it turns out that you can take the girl out of Utah, but you can...