Savage Love Podcast

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  Savage Love Episode 225

  Released 02.08.11

  Come hear the tale of the lying bisexual who chickened out and denied her bisexuality to a friend. Now she's paying the price.  An ex-Mormon teen wants to have some casual hook-ups. But it turns out that you can take the girl out of Utah, but you can...

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  Savage Love Episode 224

  Released 01.26.11

    This week, Dan brings on Amy Lang—sex educator, author, and a generally hilarious and charming guest.  All of today's calls concern how parents deal with sexuality and how to talk to your kids about sex.      Call us a...

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  Savage Love Episode 223

  Released 01.21.11

  A woman who broke up with her boyfriend after one year suffers from ADG (advanced dumper's guilt.) How can she get over it? In what sounds like an after-school special, a high-school couple really want to get it on. But the boy's violin teacher is poison...

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  Savage Love Episode 222A

  Released 01.18.11

  New and Improved!   Reduce, reuse, recycle. Does this apply to condoms? Should a boyfriend be expected to help pay for birth control pills? A rape survivor wonders if she should let her boyfriend engage in "rape play" as a form of therapy. And a lot ...

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  Savage Love Episode 221

  Released 01.11.11

  Sorry about the sound quality on some of this, folks. It gets better.  Speaking of! Dan talks with the brilliant Rebecca Drysdale about her nearly perfect song/video to accompany the It Gets Better Project.  A woman's ex-lover and current roomma...

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  Savage Love Episode 220

  Released 01.04.11

  A gay man posted some photos of himself wearing a dress. Now his family is FREAKING OUT. How can he explain that being a little freaky doesn't make him a transsexual?  Meanwhile, a very game woman is dating a confused cross-dresser. Is he gay? Is he ...

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  Savage Love Episode 219

  Released 12.20.10

  A college co-ed is mortified at her own behavior at a frat party. Can she recast her image from drunken ho to witty sophisticate?  After 12 years of marriage a man finds himself at an impasse. He's not getting any. She's not giving any. He doesn't wa...

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  Savage Love Episode 218

  Released 12.20.10

    Her boyfriend wets the bed. Should this be a dealbreaker?  A straight man repeatedly  "finds himself" getting his dick sucked by his creepy neighbor. Bi-curious much?  A 16 year old girl gets busted by her mother for sending pictures...

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  Savage Love Episode 217

  Released 12.14.10

  "It's not you. I'm just not ready for a relationship." How should a man deal with these crazy-making words? A woman used to be a bit of a slut. Now she's monogamous with her man. But the man keeps obsessing about her past. How can they build trust? Don't ...

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  Savage Love Episode 216

  Released 12.07.10

  A gay man's entire Catholic family knows he's gay. When will he come out already so they can meet his boyfriend?  Want to punish your parents? Why not join a queer porn collective?  Birthday etiquette: A concerned aunt gives her lesbian niece a ...

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  Savage Love Episode 215

  Released 11.30.10

    How do you make the transition from massage parlors to dating? A self-acknowedged cheater used to cheat, currently cheats and will cheat again. Should he consider an open relationship?   And more.  206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought ...

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  Savage Love Episode 214

  Released 11.23.10

    A young kinkster doesn't know how to tell her newly deflowered boyfriend that she wants him to slap her silly.  Beware the man who says he only meets women who are boring, or crazy or bitches.  Also, if you fool around with a man who does...

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  Savage Love Episode 213

  Released 11.16.10

    Clown porn- balloon poodles will never be the same.  How do you tell your partner that she should lose a little weight?  Is it racist to dig Mexican men?  And Dan is joined by Wayne Besen of "Truth Wins Out" on how to deal with victi...

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  Savage Love Episode 212

  Released 11.09.10

    If you're dating a poly lady, does that automatically make YOU poly?  How do you keep those pesky pubic hairs from getting trapped in the cock ring?  Hear about how paella cost a man one week of sex. Hopefully it was really good paella. H...

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  Savage Love Episode 211

  Released 11.02.10

  A gay man watches in horror as his gay friend attempts to become straight in order to please Jesus Christ.

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  Savage Love Episode 210

  Released 10.27.10

  Dan is joined by Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn. The two attempt to tackle your freaky sex problems from an evolutionary psychologist's perspective. Dan just wants to talk about plunger dicks, big sperm babies, and bonobo vulvas. Science! 2...

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  Savage Love Show coming tomorrow!

  Released 10.26.10

  Sorry everyone. Dan is off doing something unspeakably glamorous. We'll have your show for you tomorrow afternoon. Love, The TSARY

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  Savage Love Episode 209

  Released 10.19.10

  It's the Damsels in Distress episode! A college coed lost her virginity while blasted drunk. Though she remembers giving consent, her shame caused her to call it rape. Now what? Another woman got pregnant with her brand-new boyfriend. Should she keep t...

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  Savage Love Episode 208

  Released 10.12.10

  A woman and her mother have a tumultuous relationship. How will she take is when her daughter comes out as poly?

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  Savage Love Episode 207

  Released 10.05.10

  A woman is married to a cruel dickhead, pure 'n' simple. Will she DTMFA? Confused Unicorn: A married bisexual is chagrined by the treatment she gets among the gays. The poignant question—is the B in LGBT silent? A woman uses the wrong pronoun to address ...

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  Savage Love Episode 206

  Released 09.28.10

  It's the bisexual visibility show! All bisexuals, all of the time. Happy belated Bisexuality Day. Call us up. 206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by Adam and Eve. Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout. Cli...

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  Savage Love Episode 205

  Released 09.21.10

  A gay man is bewildered when a lover asks him to save his spunk in a ziploc bag. If the lady you're making love to tells you that you don't need to wear a condom, is she saying the same thing to all the other fellas? Two tales of massages with happy endi...

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  Savage Love Episode 204

  Released 09.14.10

  A woman's boyfriend got fired in May and still hasn't gotten his ass off the couch. Should she cut and run or hang in there? A lesbian grapples with her hypnosis fetish. A woman's new lover whimpers like a kicked puppy when having sex. She finds this… no...

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  Savage Love Episode 203

  Released 09.07.10

  Polyamory: There's a dark side, you know. When a stripper pays you extra attention at a strip club, does it automatically mean you're being hustled? Gusher on Aisle 3! This lady has the dubious problem of ejaculating so much that she needs three layers ...

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  Savage Love Episode 202

  Released 08.31.10

  Dan is joined by Adam Carolla for a tag team on three-ways. (For the first and last time...) And more. 206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by Smitten Kitten. Get 20 percent off your order when you enter "Savage" at checkout: http://j.mp/Sava...

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  Savage Love Episode 201

  Released 08.24.10

  It's the 'mo show! All homosexual men, all of the time! One 'mo's parents still can't deal with it, even though he came out a year ago. Another 'mo isn't out at work yet because he fears the response at his conservative office. Yet another 'mo is only ...

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  Savage Love Episode 200

  Released 08.17.10

  Hear the sordid tale of the rat, the alley, and the eight-inch cock. A man and his buddy enjoy banging the same girl at the same time. Are they getting a touch of the queer? When your boyfriend calls sex an "ordeal" and prefers porn to you, you might ha...

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  Savage Love Episode 199

  Released 08.10.10

  Amnesia: How would you like to have to break up with your boyfriend over and over again? A young woman discovers that her mother is a part of a small S&M community. The problem is the daughter wants that community to herself! And an udderly mooooving...

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  Savage Love Episode 198

  Released 08.03.10

  A disgruntled boyfriend is sick to death of his girlfriend's meddling mom. Two homos grapple with their desire for allegedly straight friends. Dan goes into rant overdrive on the subject of, of all things, monogamy. And more. 206-201-2720 Today's epi...

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  Savage Love Episode 197

  Released 07.27.10

  An interview with the victorious Constance McMillen. A message from Dan to high school teachers everywhere: You should err on the side of not fucking your students. A parade of autofellators. And more... Call us at 206-201-2720 Today's episode is als...

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  Savage Love Episode 196

  Released 07.20.10

  Will Dan Savage lose his job to 18-year-old Damian? Damian's classmates voted him most likely to replace Dan Savage.

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  Savage Love Episode 195

  Released 07.13.10

  The Lovecast is humbled to welcome Dr. Anna Kaminski from Planned Parenthood. She and Dan discuss the twin bogeymen of herpes and HPV.

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  Savage Love Episode 194

  Released 07.06.10

  Dan interviews Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn, which uses evolutionary science to vindicate Dan's position on monogamy.

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  Savage Love Episode 193

  Released 06.29.10

  Sometimes spring-winter romances just can't work. Like when he is 19 years old, and she is 11. Dan helps a very confused bisexual woman and a virgin Muslim homo to come out—at least to themselves. After their third child is born, a man is no longer attrac...

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  Savage Love Episode 192

  Released 06.22.10

  Hear the erotic tale of the woman who inhaled a gummy bear. Another whiny man who can't bear to get a vasectomy. And a call to all our self-fellating listeners. Call us even if you can't fellate yourself. 206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to y...

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  Savage Love Episode 191

  Released 06.15.10

  Lots of dicks in this one. Really small dicks, bloody uncircumcised dicks, dicks that grow tremendously...

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  Savage Love Episode 190

  Released 06.08.10

  A woman in a four-year relationship prefers anonymous sex without love. Her boyfriend wants monogamy.

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  Savage Love Episode 189

  Released 06.01.10

  Will a good fisting dislodge an IUD? She's too scared to ask her doctor. Men don't rape each other: true or false? Hey, fellas: Do you have an outie belly button? There's a lady who would like to meet you. And more. 206-201-2720 Today's episode is br...

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  Savage Love Episode 188

  Released 05.25.10

  Dear girlfriend. I love you so much. But can you please wash your vagina? A woman at the beginning of an online dating adventure is warned that her potential paramour has a terribly bruised penis from extreme masturbation. Hot or not? A man wants to date...

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  Savage Love Episode 187

  Released 05.18.10

  Grandpa up and died. And he left behind his porn stash. Should his granddaughter rush in to hide it before the rest of the family discovers Grandpa's little secret? A man treats his boyfriend like a Madonna, when he just wants to be a whore. A 23-year-ol...