In this week's Savage Love: Blown away
I am a 24-year-old straight guy who recently broke up with my girlfriend of more than four years. One of the reasons we…
In this week’s Savage Love: Retroactive blessings
Without snooping, I came across texts between my wife, “Mary,” and a guy “Jeremy” of a very sexual nature. While I…
In this week’s Savage Love: Shameful
I’ve been married to my husband for two years. Five months into our relationship (before we got married), he confessed…
In this week's Savage Love: What works
I am a 38-year-old gay man with a serious problem. My boyfriend of five years has developed a strange fascination.…
In this week’s Savage Love: Pissy
I like watersports, and I heard about a guy in a rural area who holds piss parties in his backyard. I found a mailing…
In this week’s Savage Love: Denver’s Oriental Theater
Savage Love Live at Denver’s Oriental Theater last week was epic. I fielded sex questions in front of a sold-out crowd,…
In this week’s Savage Love: Pedestrian AF
First let me say that I think you give excellent advice, even if it is a bit pedestrian at times. I have a small…
In this week’s Savage Love: Quickies
I wish I had a better question, but this is all I have: My friends and I were discussing the nuances of a straight orgy…
In this week's Savage Love: Crushed
I’m a straight male in my 30s. I’ve been with my wife for 12 years. I have had several affairs. Not one-night-stand…
In this week’s Savage Love: Down there
Background: I, a 21-year-old male, enjoy receptive fisting. I’ve also had constipation problems all my life. Question:…
In this week's Savage Love: Call for submissions
I’m a 36-year-old straight woman. I was sexually and physically abused as a kid, and raped in my early 20s. I have been…
This week in Savage Love: Questions from the Royal Oak Music Theatre
I visited Royal Oak, Michigan, for Savage Love Live at the Royal Oak Music Theatre. I didn’t get to all of the…
In this week’s Savage Love: Cock locked
I’m in D/s relationship. I’m not submissive around the clock, but my partner owns my cock. We’ve purchased several male…
In this week’s Savage Love: Ace & the hole
I’m a 26-year-old cis queer woman. My best friend has identified publicly as asexual for the past two years. She…
In this week's Savage Love: What is love?
I’m a 33-year-old woman from Melbourne, Australia, dating a 24-year-old man. We’ve been dating for about eight months;…
In this week’s Savage Love: Zaps
I’m an 18-year-old cis hetero girl from Australia and I’ve been listening to your podcast and reading your column since…
In this week’s Savage Love: Quickies
I recently stumbled on an Instagram account of a young woman who’s a “knife play” enthusiast. I consider myself…
In this week’s Savage Love: Bi & biphobia
I’m an 18-year-old female. I’m cisgender and bisexual. I’ve been in a monogamous relationship with my cisgender…
In this week’s Savage Love: Fighting words
I’m a 24-year-old nonbinary person living in Florida. I have two wonderful girlfriends. One I have been with for four…
In this week’s Savage Love: Showing up
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