Apr 7SaveSavage Love4/7/21Savage Love4/7/21This week in Savage Love: ConcessionsDan Savage105SaveI’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that we…
Mar 31SaveSavage Love3/31/21Savage Love3/31/21This week in Savage Love: Mess around and find outDan Savage74SaveI’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship—or so I thought. Last week, I snooped on…
Mar 24SaveSavage Love3/24/21Savage Love3/24/21This week in Savage Love: LivestreamDan Savage54SaveI want to thank everyone who attended our third Savage Love Livestream last Saturday night. Mistress Matisse was our…
Mar 17SaveSavage Love3/17/21Savage Love3/17/21This week in Savage Love: The phone jobDan Savage86SaveA male friend—not my best friend but a close one—told me his wife was really attracted to me, another male, and…
Mar 10SaveSavage Love3/10/21Savage Love3/10/21This week in Savage Love: Cutting remarksDan Savage89SaveI’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement. To…
Mar 3SaveSavage Love3/3/21Savage Love3/3/21This week in Savage Love: DevastationDan Savage168Save I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman. As if that wasn’t…
Feb 24SaveSavage Love2/24/21Savage Love2/24/21This week in Savage Love: De-kinkedDan Savage45SaveI know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but mine have all…
Feb 17SaveSavage Love2/17/21Savage Love2/17/21This week in Savage Love: Pandemic pressuresDan Savage67SaveI’m a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. My boyfriend has really been emotionally impacted by the…
Feb 10SaveSavage Love2/10/21Savage Love2/10/21This week in Savage Love: Toy boyDan Savage82SaveI’m positive you’ve written something about this in the past. I have searched your archives but have only managed to…
Feb 3SaveSavage Love2/3/21Savage Love2/3/21This week in Savage Love: QuickiesDan Savage63Save I’m a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him…
Jan 27SaveSavage Love1/27/21Savage Love1/27/21This week in Savage Love: The boyfriend experienceDan Savage67SaveSex-positive bi woman here. I have recommended your column to many people over the years to help them feel normal…
Jan 20SaveSavage Love1/20/21Savage Love1/20/21This week in Savage Love: Case disclosedDan Savage90SaveI could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and went…
Jan 13SaveSavage Love1/13/21Savage Love1/13/21This week in Savage Love: Cum againDan Savage55SaveAs you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot”…
Jan 6SaveSavage Love1/6/21Savage Love1/6/21This week in Savage Love: European adventuresDan Savage74SaveWe’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t…
Dec 30SaveSavage Love12/30/20Savage Love12/30/20This week in Savage Love: Lesbian dramaDan Savage30SaveOne of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama…
Dec 23SaveSavage Love12/23/20Savage Love12/23/20This week in Savage Love: Livestream 2Dan Savage33SaveWe hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but…
Dec 16SaveSavage Love12/16/20Savage Love12/16/20This week in Savage Love: Gay dream believerDan Savage41SaveI’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old…
Dec 9SaveSavage Love12/9/20Savage Love12/9/20This week in Savage Love: The casseroleDan Savage101SaveSomething is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great guy…
Dec 2SaveSavage Love12/2/20Savage Love12/2/20This week in Savage Love: Losing outDan Savage65SaveI’m a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I’ve read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and…
Nov 25SaveSavage Love11/25/20Savage Love11/25/20This week in Savage Love: BlockedDan Savage42SaveMy boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we’re both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling…