Savage Love

I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and went…

As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot”…

We’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t…

One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama…

We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but…

I’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old…

Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great guy…

I’m a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I’ve read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and…

My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we’re both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling…

I’ve always been excited by BDSM but I’ve only minimally explored this side of myself until very recently. I’m a…

Why are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just googling “finding…

I’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity.…

I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for the past year. The only problem is that he works with a girl he…

Borrowing Gen Z’s love for labelling everything, I’m a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that…

My husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had twelve great years together. He was also very,…

I was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for ten months. He told me that he wants to work on himself and “needs…

I’m a thirty-something gay man married to a thirty-something gay man. For almost two years, we’ve been seeing…

Married guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for almost…

I’m a straight man who’s been dating a woman for not quite four months. In the beginning things were light. But…

I’m a 29-year-old straight woman in Pennsylvania. My question has to do with choking and consent. I’ve had two…