Jan 20SaveSavage Love1/20/21Savage Love1/20/21This week in Savage Love: Case disclosedDan Savage95SaveI could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and went…
Jan 13SaveSavage Love1/13/21Savage Love1/13/21This week in Savage Love: Cum againDan Savage55SaveAs you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot”…
Jan 6SaveSavage Love1/6/21Savage Love1/6/21This week in Savage Love: European adventuresDan Savage84SaveWe’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t…
Dec 30SaveSavage Love12/30/20Savage Love12/30/20This week in Savage Love: Lesbian dramaDan Savage30SaveOne of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama…
Dec 23SaveSavage Love12/23/20Savage Love12/23/20This week in Savage Love: Livestream 2Dan Savage52SaveWe hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but…
Dec 16SaveSavage Love12/16/20Savage Love12/16/20This week in Savage Love: Gay dream believerDan Savage41SaveI’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old…
Dec 9SaveSavage Love12/9/20Savage Love12/9/20This week in Savage Love: The casseroleDan Savage99SaveSomething is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great guy…
Dec 2SaveSavage Love12/2/20Savage Love12/2/20This week in Savage Love: Losing outDan Savage65SaveI’m a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I’ve read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and…
Nov 25SaveSavage Love11/25/20Savage Love11/25/20This week in Savage Love: BlockedDan Savage42SaveMy boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we’re both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling…
Nov 18SaveSavage Love11/18/20Savage Love11/18/20This week in Savage Love: Add it upDan Savage61SaveI’ve always been excited by BDSM but I’ve only minimally explored this side of myself until very recently. I’m a…
Nov 11SaveSavage Love11/11/20Savage Love11/11/20This week in Savage Love: Four playDan Savage76SaveWhy are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just googling “finding…
Nov 4SaveSavage Love11/4/20Savage Love11/4/20This week in Savage Love: Old timesDan Savage75SaveI’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity.…
Oct 28SaveSavage Love10/28/20Savage Love10/28/20This week in Savage Love: Jealous typologiesDan Savage86SaveI’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for the past year. The only problem is that he works with a girl he…
Oct 21SaveSavage Love10/21/20Savage Love10/21/20This week in Savage Love: Don’t give upDan Savage88SaveBorrowing Gen Z’s love for labelling everything, I’m a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that…
Oct 14SaveSavage Love10/14/20Savage Love10/14/20This week in Savage Love: Direct messagesDan Savage70SaveMy husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had twelve great years together. He was also very,…
Oct 7SaveSavage Love10/7/20Savage Love10/7/20This week in Savage Love: QuickiesDan Savage49SaveI was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for ten months. He told me that he wants to work on himself and “needs…
Sep 30SaveSavage Love9/30/20Savage Love9/30/20This week in Savage Love: Roger thatDan Savage62SaveI’m a thirty-something gay man married to a thirty-something gay man. For almost two years, we’ve been seeing…
Sep 23SaveSavage Love9/23/20Savage Love9/23/20This week in Savage Love: Missed connectionsDan Savage61SaveMarried guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for almost…
Sep 16SaveSavage Love9/16/20Savage Love9/16/20This week in Savage Love: PremiesDan Savage113SaveI’m a straight man who’s been dating a woman for not quite four months. In the beginning things were light. But…
Sep 9SaveSavage Love9/9/20Savage Love9/9/20This week in Savage Love: No chokeDan Savage86SaveI’m a 29-year-old straight woman in Pennsylvania. My question has to do with choking and consent. I’ve had two…