Oct 14SaveSavage Love10/14/20Savage Love10/14/20This week in Savage Love: Direct messagesDan Savage70SaveMy husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had twelve great years together. He was also very,…
Oct 7SaveSavage Love10/7/20Savage Love10/7/20This week in Savage Love: QuickiesDan Savage49SaveI was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for ten months. He told me that he wants to work on himself and “needs…
Sep 30SaveSavage Love9/30/20Savage Love9/30/20This week in Savage Love: Roger thatDan Savage62SaveI’m a thirty-something gay man married to a thirty-something gay man. For almost two years, we’ve been seeing…
Sep 23SaveSavage Love9/23/20Savage Love9/23/20This week in Savage Love: Missed connectionsDan Savage61SaveMarried guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for almost…
Sep 16SaveSavage Love9/16/20Savage Love9/16/20This week in Savage Love: PremiesDan Savage113SaveI’m a straight man who’s been dating a woman for not quite four months. In the beginning things were light. But…
Sep 9SaveSavage Love9/9/20Savage Love9/9/20This week in Savage Love: No chokeDan Savage86SaveI’m a 29-year-old straight woman in Pennsylvania. My question has to do with choking and consent. I’ve had two…
Sep 2SaveSavage Love9/2/20Savage Love9/2/20This week in Savage Love: Fantasy figuresDan Savage49SaveI’ve been married for thirty years to the same man. I have dealt with his tantrums, his screaming, and his fits.…
Aug 26SaveSavage Love8/26/20Savage Love8/26/20This week in Savage Love: Tall orderDan Savage98SaveI’m a cis male in my late twenties. I’ve recently become consumed by a specific fantasy I fear is unattainable, a…
Aug 19SaveSavage Love8/19/20Savage Love8/19/20This week in Savage Love: QuickiesDan Savage80SaveI’m a 35-year-old woman. I recently discovered I’m a size queen. (Is it OK for me to use this term?) This has been…
Aug 12SaveSavage Love8/12/20Savage Love8/12/20This week in Savage Love: Married peopleDan Savage105SaveI’m a 38-year-old bi woman who has been sleeping with a married male coworker for the last eight months. We’re a…
Aug 5SaveSavage Love8/5/20Savage Love8/5/20This week in Savage Love: Stating the obviousDan Savage90SaveI’m a gay guy who’s involved with a guy I met a few months before COVID-19 took off. He’s a great guy, smart, funny,…
Jul 29SaveSavage Love7/29/20Savage Love7/29/20This week in Savage Love: Friends in deedDan Savage154SaveI’m a twenty-something more-or-less lesbian in an East Coast city. I’m primarily into women, and I’m only interested…
Jul 22SaveSavage Love7/22/20Savage Love7/22/20This week in Savage Love: CommittedDan Savage81SaveIs it terrible to believe you can still have a truly monogamous and loving relationship with one partner after…
Jul 15SaveSavage Love7/15/20Savage Love7/15/20This week in Savage Love: UnpluggedDan Savage46SaveMy wife asked me to write to you about our situation. We’ve been married for fifteen years. I am 50 years old and my…
Jul 8SaveSavage Love7/8/20Savage Love7/8/20This week in Savage Love: Cucking dykesDan Savage36SaveI’m a lesbian in a long-term relationship. After much conversation with my partner we’ve decided to explore…
Jul 1SaveSavage Love7/1/20Savage Love7/1/20This week in Savage Love: Kinked gaysDan Savage39SaveI have a question. I’m a gay man in a relationship and we’re both really happy since we met a year ago. We’re “open”…
Jun 24SaveSavage Love6/24/20Savage Love6/24/20This week in Savage Love: Blowing upDan Savage50SaveI’m committed to my male partner and he’s committed to me. (I’m a woman.) But we both understand we need to flirt…
Jun 17SaveSavage Love6/17/20Savage Love6/17/20This week in Savage Love: Oral reportsDan Savage20SaveI’m a 32-year-old straight guy. My wife and I have been married for four years and together for nine. We have a…
Jun 10SaveSavage Love6/10/20Savage Love6/10/20This week in Savage Love: StreamersDan Savage50SaveHey, everybody: We had our first Savage Love Livestream event last Thursday night and I had such a blast! A huge…
Jun 3SaveSavage Love6/3/20Savage Love6/3/20This week in Savage Love: BlindersDan Savage46SaveHere goes: I’m a 32-year-old gay male and I have trouble staying out of my head during sex. I feel like there may be…