Savage Love

I’m a lesbian in a long-term relationship. After much conversation with my partner we’ve decided to explore…

I have a question. I’m a gay man in a relationship and we’re both really happy since we met a year ago. We’re “open”…

I’m committed to my male partner and he’s committed to me. (I’m a woman.) But we both understand we need to flirt…

I’m a 32-year-old straight guy. My wife and I have been married for four years and together for nine. We have a…

Hey, everybody: We had our first Savage Love Livestream event last Thursday night and I had such a blast! A huge…

Here goes: I’m a 32-year-old gay male and I have trouble staying out of my head during sex. I feel like there may be…

I don’t want to become one of those people who write to you complaining about how I married someone I wasn’t…

Here’s a non-COVID question for you: I’m a queer white female in a monogamish marriage. I vote left, I abhor hatred…

It’s taken a lot to do this but here goes. I am a 38-year-old gay male. I have been dating this guy for one year and…

I’ve been with the same amazing man a dozen years. We’ve had our ups and our downs, same as any other couple, but…

I’m a 31-year-old female. Last week I suddenly started to experience an overwhelming, compulsive, and near-constant…

I was raised in a religious home and didn’t lose my virginity until the embarrassing age of 26. I was told by the…

I am a super queer presenting female who recently accepted that I have desires for men. My partner of two years is…

Your last two columns and your last two podcasts were all about the pandemic. Everything everywhere is all about the…

My husband and I got married in August of 2019 and we were together for over five years before getting married. I’m…

My question is on managing “gray area” intimacies during the pandemic. I have a lover/friend that I’ve been hanging…

DEAR READERS: I live in Seattle, the U.S. epicenter of the novel coronavirus epidemic, with my family. A lot of my…

I’m a cis bi woman, and I mainly have sex with people with penises. I have a really gross problem, sorry. It’s been…

I’m a middle-aged gay man and I was recently diagnosed with sleep apnea. This is a disorder caused by the soft…

I’m a 31-year-old cis bisexual woman. I’m hetero-romantic and in a monogamish relationship with a man. We play with…