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I’m a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him…
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1/27/21 1:00AM
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Sex-positive bi woman here. I have recommended your column to many people over the years to help them feel normal…
1/20/21 1:00AM
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I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and went…
1/13/21 1:00AM
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As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot”…
1/06/21 1:00AM
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We’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t…
12/30/20 1:00AM
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One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama…
12/23/20 1:00AM
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We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but…
12/16/20 1:00AM
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I’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old…
12/09/20 1:00AM
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Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great guy…
12/02/20 1:00AM
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I’m a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I’ve read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and…
11/25/20 1:00AM
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My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we’re both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling…
11/18/20 1:00AM
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I’ve always been excited by BDSM but I’ve only minimally explored this side of myself until very recently. I’m a…
11/11/20 1:00AM
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Why are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just googling “finding…
11/04/20 1:00AM
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I’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity.…
10/28/20 1:00AM
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I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for the past year. The only problem is that he works with a girl he…
10/21/20 1:00AM
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Borrowing Gen Z’s love for labelling everything, I’m a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that…
10/14/20 1:00AM
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My husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had twelve great years together. He was also very,…
10/07/20 1:00AM
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I was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for ten months. He told me that he wants to work on himself and “needs…
9/30/20 1:00AM
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I’m a thirty-something gay man married to a thirty-something gay man. For almost two years, we’ve been seeing…
9/23/20 1:00AM
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Married guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for almost…