Dan Savage's posts

This week, Dan offers advice on a massage dilemma and orgasm denial

This week, Dan offers advice to someone stuck in a sexless marriage and follows up with a few responses to last…

Is it normal for therapists to encourage a couple to divorce when the couple does not want that?

This week, Dan answers a roundup of questions on topics like penis size, spanking, and excess body hair

Dan Savage responds to a reader who wonders if there's a limit to being GGG, and another with specific requirements…

Dan helps readers with family problems this week, from close cousins to worried moms

This week, Dan tackles a beyond-awkward “meet the parents” problem

Dan counsels a cheated-on husband in this week’s Savage Love

Dan deals with a number of infidelity issues in this week’s column

This week Dan advises to DTMFA and to set up some Hall Pass parameters

This week Dan Savage answers a grab bag of questions left over from his podcast, from fraysexuality to long-distance…

Dan deals with a variety of family affairs in this week’s Savage Love

Dan Savage answers questions about tipping a neighbor on OnlyFans, kissing someone after blowing someone else, and…

European readers send Dan questions about disclosing their STIs and their attractions to people who aren't their…

Dan tells 3 separate letter writers to DTMFA, already

I had a stroke a year ago. The woman I was dating at the time stepped away. I have no hard feelings but I long for…

I need your advice. My partner of 27 years has been sleeping with my best friend. This has been going on for a year…

I’m a European heterosexual girl and reading your column from afar has been a good way for me to better know the sex…

I’m someone who does gay porn for a living. How do people who do gay porn meet someone who doesn’t just sexualize or…

You’ve said that everyone is entitled to a “zone of erotic autonomy.” I was wondering if you thought that “zone”…