In a statement to USA Today, though, Lady A the singer offered a statement that—while still recognizing that it was good that everyone talked—seems to have a little “it is what it is” resignation to it. She said she accepted the band’s apology and also shared its Instagram post, but while they did talk about “attempting to co-exist,” they didn’t “discuss what that would look like.” Either way, Lady A says she was “clear” about keeping her name. It sure would be interesting to know what was said in this secret meeting, but that is the point of secret meetings.