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You'll never be free of The Things You Kill in this twisty, tense thriller

The Canadian Oscar entry watches a Turkish family implode under the weight of their secrets.

You'll never be free of The Things You Kill in this twisty, tense thriller

Seeing one’s true self is the key to The Things You Kill, a heady family drama/crime thriller from writer-director Alireza Khatami (Terrestrial Verses). It’s a film built upon stacked facades, each giving way to another feeble delusion as the pressure mounts. Like those in any good psychological twister, these facades are scrupulously maintained, preciously guarded, as they prevent the vulnerable truth from being exposed to the world. Khatami’s methodical film excavates these fragile artifacts with quiet care and an elliptical trust in his audience’s enraptured attention.

Shot against breathtaking Anatolian vistas and featuring an excellent Turkish ensemble, the slick and cerebral film starts spinning apart when a family’s elderly matriarch dies in the middle of the night. She was old and ailing, yes, but her college professor son Ali (Ekin Koç) had also recently learned that his burly, callous father (Ercan Kesal) had been abusive over the course of their marriage. Was her death really just the result of natural causes? And can, or should, anything be done depending on the answer to that question? These thoughts haunt her son as deeply as her memory, while the rest of her children, Ali’s sisters, would rather quietly move things along—not forgetting per se, just glossing over the facts they’d prefer not to know, until time buries them alongside their parents.

These women are more readily able to sit with uncomfortable complexities, more conditioned to weather the revealed cruelties underneath everyday truths. “Agony seems reserved solely for women,” one of Ali’s sisters tells him. But for the stifled Ali, this impotent uncertainty begets violence—the terrifyingly familiar trajectory of threatened masculinity. It’s no surprise when Ali brings his suspicions around his mother’s death to his mysterious gardener Reza (Erkan Kolçak Köstendil). Reza just wanders up one day under the hot sun asking for water and employment, his qualifications as opaque as his confidence. But it’s enough for Ali. Together, they hatch a scheme to get revenge, if not the truth.

Before this, though, the way The Things You Kill walks through the mundane responsibilities and indignities of caring for a parent, and the friction between family members, establishes the kind of quiet (and dry humor) found at the beginnings of the best horror movies. Ali’s domestic and professional lives—his furtive fertility issues with his veterinarian wife Hazar (Hazar Ergüçlü) and his flirtations with one of his translation students at the university—bleed into one another, and in doing so, highlight the cracks that could easily turn to fissures with just a bit more external pressure. His mother’s death, and the revelations about his father, are just the catalysts he doesn’t need.

Khatami and his cinematographer Bartosz Swiniarski sit with these reality-flipping reveals in takes long enough that they become itchy, and play with focus to direct the viewer’s attention into corners and reflections. An uncanny stillness, thoughtful not dull, infects the cleancut Ali’s life. Koç makes his way through the matter-of-fact beauty and looming unease with growing wariness and canniness—though not nearly enough. As the film begins to imply, that’s where the curiously confident Reza comes in. Köstendil is as slick as Koç is buttoned-up, the former’s dark eyes and imposing fury refracting the latter’s more restrained performance. Together they provide an understated, lower-key take on some of the mirroring, doubling work of David Lynch, injected into a realist domestic drama.

When the film’s realism is finally battered by a few shocking bursts of jaw-dropping style, the less naturalistic parts of The Things You Kill come as a surprise, but the dreamy, sexually tense film is always obsessing over the parts of us that we don’t want to acknowledge in the cold light of day. When those parts refuse to stay in the shadows, the film arrests our attention and transforms into something that’s more of a gripping fable than a grounded tale of inherited apartments and details on death certificates.

In this way, The Things You Kill can be about familiar dramatic themes—all the things we inherit, including traumas and the ways we suppress them—without any of the cloying obviousness of so many modern genre films. Instead, the narrative off-handedness coaxes the viewer further in, so they can make the connections themselves. As Ali spirals, it’s easy to notice the way he communicates under pressure, the way he escalates conflicts, the way the buttons keeping his buttoned-up persona contained start to pop under duress. His collapsing compartmentalization leads to the ultimate insult and the unavoidable truth: “You’re just like Dad.”

As much as we’d like to kill the things we dislike about ourselves, especially the ones we feel unfairly saddled with by our parents, our surroundings, or our upbringing, they don’t just go away because we noticed and rejected them. They haunt us, even if we think we’ve snuffed them out of ourselves. Nobody is defined by their parents, but they are, in a way, translated from them—we are interpretations of genetic texts, given new meaning by their writer. The Things You Kill embodies this idea, turning a shattered psyche and a broken family into an exploration of our capacity to adapt.

Director: Alireza Khatami
Writer: Alireza Khatami
Starring: Ekin Koç, Erkan Kolçak Köstendil, Hazar Ergüçlü, Ercan Kesal
Release Date: November 14, 2025

 
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