Dan Savage's posts

I’ve been wondering: Since there are lesbians out there who occasionally crave cock, does the reverse also happen?…

My boyfriend of eight months, K, and I are polyamorous. We started the relationship on that foot, and for a while I…

My wife has been seriously ill for three years, and I have been her sole caregiver. The doctors here weren’t getting…

I’m a reader in Kansas with two teenage daughters, 16 and 18. My girls recently met a boy where they work and both…

I’m a 35-year-old straight woman, recently married, and everything is great. But I have been having problems…

I’m a gay medical student with a medical fetish, and I can’t even open up to my therapist about this. I think the…

I’m a 29-year-old straight woman facing a dilemma. I dated this guy about a year ago, and in many ways he was…

I had a great time at the live taping of the Savage Lovecast at Chicago’s Music Box Theatre. Audience members…

I am a 34-year-old straight woman. I’m monogamous and have an avoidant attachment style. I’ve been seeing a guy I…

I’m almost 30 and I’m a virgin. I’m an overweight, straight-ish guy (I’m attracted to a few men, but those cases are…

I hate how my boyfriend has sex with me. He is 40 years old. It used to be fine, but a year ago he started adding…

I’m a middle-aged homo trying to figure out Grindr. Is it impolite to go on Grindr if you’re not looking for an…

I have two female sex partners who want to be breath-play dominated. I know the practice is dangerous, and I employ…

I’m a happily married straight man. My wife, who is 33 years old, cannot orgasm through intercourse since we had our…

My husband is nearly 20 years older than me, which was never an issue early in our relationship. However, for…

Nancy, the tech-savvy at-risk youth, two gimps, Christ on the cross, the Easter Bunny, two weeping women, and the…

I’m a 31-year-old gay male. I’ve been with my fiancé for three years, and we are getting married in the fall. I’ve…

I’m a queer girl living with a male partner. This weekend, we found ourselves in an after-hours club, made some new…

I’ve read your column for as long as I had access to the internet and was interested in sex, so here goes: I’m a…