Savage Love8/16/17Aug 16 2017SaveSavage Love8/16/17Savage LoveQuickiesDan Savage272I’ve been wondering: Since there are lesbians out there who occasionally crave cock, does the reverse also happen?…
Savage Love8/9/17Aug 9 2017SaveSavage Love8/9/17Savage LoveCommit to somethingDan Savage216My boyfriend of eight months, K, and I are polyamorous. We started the relationship on that foot, and for a while I…
Savage Love8/2/17Aug 2 2017SaveSavage Love8/2/17Savage LoveCrossed dressersDan Savage263My wife has been seriously ill for three years, and I have been her sole caregiver. The doctors here weren’t getting…
Savage Love7/26/17Jul 26 2017SaveSavage Love7/26/17Savage LoveCreepersDan Savage351I’m a reader in Kansas with two teenage daughters, 16 and 18. My girls recently met a boy where they work and both…
Savage Love7/19/17Jul 19 2017SaveSavage Love7/19/17Savage LoveCome againDan Savage437I’m a 35-year-old straight woman, recently married, and everything is great. But I have been having problems…
Savage Love7/12/17Jul 12 2017SaveSavage Love7/12/17Savage LoveScrubsDan Savage388I’m a gay medical student with a medical fetish, and I can’t even open up to my therapist about this. I think the…
Savage Love7/5/17Jul 5 2017SaveSavage Love7/5/17Savage LoveSacrificeDan Savage247I’m a 29-year-old straight woman facing a dilemma. I dated this guy about a year ago, and in many ways he was…
Savage Love6/28/17Jun 28 2017SaveSavage Love6/28/17Savage LoveThe Music BoxDan Savage287I had a great time at the live taping of the Savage Lovecast at Chicago’s Music Box Theatre. Audience members…
Savage Love6/21/17Jun 21 2017SaveSavage Love6/21/17Savage LoveSneakersDan Savage435I am a 34-year-old straight woman. I’m monogamous and have an avoidant attachment style. I’ve been seeing a guy I…
Savage Love6/14/17Jun 14 2017SaveSavage Love6/14/17Savage LoveVirgin territoryDan Savage392I’m almost 30 and I’m a virgin. I’m an overweight, straight-ish guy (I’m attracted to a few men, but those cases are…
Savage Love6/7/17Jun 7 2017SaveSavage Love6/7/17Savage LoveGet outDan Savage680I hate how my boyfriend has sex with me. He is 40 years old. It used to be fine, but a year ago he started adding…
Savage Love5/31/17May 31 2017SaveSavage Love5/31/17Savage LoveLookingDan Savage434I’m a middle-aged homo trying to figure out Grindr. Is it impolite to go on Grindr if you’re not looking for an…
Savage Love5/24/17May 24 2017SaveSavage Love5/24/17Savage LoveBreathlessDan Savage292I have two female sex partners who want to be breath-play dominated. I know the practice is dangerous, and I employ…
Savage Love5/17/17May 17 2017SaveSavage Love5/17/17Savage LoveAnti-climaxDan Savage339I’m a happily married straight man. My wife, who is 33 years old, cannot orgasm through intercourse since we had our…
Savage Love5/10/17May 10 2017SaveSavage Love5/10/17Savage LoveTraps and triggersDan Savage258My husband is nearly 20 years older than me, which was never an issue early in our relationship. However, for…
Savage Love5/3/17May 3 2017SaveSavage Love5/3/17Savage LoveThe leftoversDan Savage223Nancy, the tech-savvy at-risk youth, two gimps, Christ on the cross, the Easter Bunny, two weeping women, and the…
Savage Love4/26/17Apr 26 2017SaveSavage Love4/26/17Savage LoveRestlessDan Savage265I’m a 31-year-old gay male. I’ve been with my fiancé for three years, and we are getting married in the fall. I’ve…
Savage Love4/19/17Apr 19 2017SaveSavage Love4/19/17Savage LoveDick monstersDan Savage390I’m a queer girl living with a male partner. This weekend, we found ourselves in an after-hours club, made some new…
Savage Love4/12/17Apr 12 2017SaveSavage Love4/12/17Savage LoveHard limitsDan Savage354I’ve read your column for as long as I had access to the internet and was interested in sex, so here goes: I’m a…