How to make friends with crows, like an old wizard or something
There is a “how to” for pretty much everything on the internet. Need to tie a knot or download a Sega Saturn emulator or properly set up a juicer or break some bad news to a friend? There is a YouTube or WikiHow tutorial for it. And yet even within this genre, few are as alluring, mysterious, and inexplicable as Owlcation’s new article, “How To Make Friends With Crows,” which provides pointers on not just how to befriend the swooping metaphors for death but also how to commune with them, to better understand their darkly beautiful animal souls.
As far as the actual steps, they pretty much boil down to “feed the birds regularly.” But there’s a wonderful sense of directionless intuition as far as what and how to feed them: You’re informed to not just toss peanuts at them, but to spend some time and find out what the birds in that region like. (“This requires some trial and error, as they can—or maybe it’s just the urban ones who can—be surprisingly finicky.”) You’re urged repeatedly to give them distance and time. Eventually, they turn into standoffish, distant companions, who you understand only as if through a veil. The friendship is a source of mystery that must be admired from afar and never broached. But this is the entire appeal, as the author writes:
They are never going to come running like a dog will for a lick and a pet, and their standoffish attitude is probably a major reason why they have thrived as a species for so long. Remember, crows are wild animals. In the U.S., it is illegal to keep native songbirds (crows included) as pets. If you want a pet you should get one, but if you’re interested in crows, you’ll have to learn to appreciate their charms from afar.
Besides, get real, most humans view crows as ominous, murderous evils (or at best, rats with wings). For centuries, they have played the bad guys in the stories humans tell themselves, and I’m sure those crows have noticed the eye-daggers most people shoot at them, how cars veer to the shoulder to intentionally run them over. Why wouldn’t that distrust be mutual?