It would be safe to say that over the 12-year run of American Dad, it’s been made fairly clear that Stan Smith is nothing special as a father. Sure, he has the occasional redemptive moment in episodes like “Delorean Story-An,” and “Stannie Get Your Gun,” but he struggles to connect with either of his children, and unlike, say, Hank Hill, he doesn’t make much of an effort to bridge the gap. With that in mind, it doesn’t seem too surprising that the Smith family has forgotten Father’s Day, forcing Stan to miss out on the big CIA dad bod fashion show.
Still, they naturally feel terrible when Stan reminds them of this, and resolve to make it up for him with a big celebration two days after Father’s Day (in an amusing bit, an Obsessive-Compulsive radio host begins his show by repeatedly pointing out that it’s two days after Father’s Day). The family gives him a solid-but-imperfect outing, and Stan feels vindicated, until Roger reminds him of all the things they could have done better. Being the sociopath that he is, Roger is the most frequent catalyst for mayhem in this show, and sure enough, his remarks lead Stan down a dark road. Deciding the make-up Father’s Day wasn’t good enough, he decides to erase their memory and have them try it again. And again. And again. And again.
This is a bit tricky; on the one hand, the show’s usages of CIA technology has lead to some of its best moments, with episodes like “The Vacation Goo,” and “Virtual Instanity” giving us some inspired moments. Sure enough, the montage of Steve’s birdhouses, Francine’s dinners, and Hayley’s songs becoming more and more elaborate is highly amusing, but Stan’s cruelty here makes it all a bit unsettling. The idea that the Smiths are never good enough for Stan has been explored before, in episodes like “The Most Adequate Christmas Ever,” and “Every Which Way But Lose,” and it can be uncomfortable to watch. Stan erases the family’s memory every time anything is slightly imperfect, no matter how great everything else is, and it’s hard not feel an increasing amount of disgust for him.
After five months go by without Steve attending school, Snot finally shows up and asks what’s going. Stan erases his memory, too, but he isn’t able to avoid Klaus, the one character whose memory he does not erase (“you’re not even on my radar, dude”). Klaus shows Steve the basement full of discarded birdhouses he made and the jig is up. This is where Stan makes his most bizarre decision of the episode: to lash out at his family after being found out, rather than immediately begging for forgiveness. He goes on a rant for the ages, though the audience is unable to hear it, secure in the belief that he can simply erase everyone’s memory again. What he fails to realize is that Klaus destroyed Stan’s memory the night before, meaning he must now have to live with his family being fully aware of the months of hell he put them through, along with his even crueler comments afterwards.