Modern Family: "Three Dinners"

In last week’s review, I talked about how latter-day Modern Family has consistently chosen comfort and longevity over growth and daring. What I should have also mentioned is that I don’t care so much about growth or daring if the show can do what it does well consistently and make me laugh a few times. The issue with Modern Family these days is that it has become woefully unreliable. The lack of innovation is just the twist of the knife. “Three Dinners” continues season five's subtle, gradual uptick; it’s a solid episode that does nothing to push against the show’s boundaries, but it was brisk and had some solid laughs, so why quibble?
Structurally, “Three Dinners” is Modern Family at its simplest, with the three family factions confined to their own plots without any overlap between them. As the title suggests, there’s not much more linking the three stories together besides the fact that they each involve meals and awkward conversations. The Dunphys had the strongest material of the episode, with Phil and Claire taking Haley out for dinner, and trying unsuccessfully to ply her with basil-infused mojitos to soften the blow when they tell her she’s adrift since getting kicked out of college.
I’m growing an appreciation for what the writers are doing with Haley this season. For one thing, it’s nice to see some acknowledgement of the fact that Haley has been adrift from sometime, not just within the narrative, but she’s felt untethered from the show all season. It’s just a matter of the other characters having vague arcs while it has been unclear exactly what’s going on with Haley. The other kids are experiencing growing pains, each in their own way, but since Haley got expelled, it hasn't been clear what she’s supposed to be doing other than perpetually toying with the idea of reuniting with Dylan.
But “Three Dinners” showed a Haley who has been maturing right along with the other kids, albeit in her own lackadaisical, ten-hours-sleep kind of way. Haley is on the ditzy side, to be sure, but she’s gotten a few choice moments over the years where she’s been able to turn situations to her advantage precisely because she’s lowered people’s expectations of her. Here, she gets to hit her parents in the face with humble pie, revealing she has built an audience for a cash-generating fashion blog and hopes to parlay it into becoming a stylist. (Or becoming someone who teaches fashion bloggers how to weed out the pervs.)