Black-ish wants you to think about your parents “banging it out”
Yes, that’s right. Black-ish wants you to think about your parents “banging it out,” and that’s evident from the very beginning of the episode. Dre’s opening voiceover is absolutely right when he says that no one actually wants to think about the sausage being made—the sausage being all of us—but that doesn’t mean that’s the end of that. After all, he makes it very clear with the sexual imagery in the cold open and, well, having an entire plot about parents “banging it out.” (It’s an upsetting turn of phrase, but it’s also the most applicable.) Plus, as a child of divorce, things become especially complicated when you have to think about your parent going forward and being intimate with other people who didn’t have a hand in creating you. It’s a simple concept, and it’s an honest one, which is something that Black-ish excels at even in weaker episodes. Luckily, this isn’t a weaker episode, which makes such an uncomfortable core concept so much easier to take in.
Above all else, “Old Digger” is a necessary episode for the Ruby character; as great as Jenifer Lewis is, Ruby’s presence in season two has hit a bit of a wall, especially as a character who only exists to take down Bow. This isn’t an episode of comeuppance for that behavior, but it is one of the character having so much more to do than the same old verbal abuse, and it’s so much better for it. As “Old Digger” shows us, being in an actual relationship doesn’t necessarily change Ruby as a character and person—she’s still cutting down Bow and praying for Satan to leave anyone and anything—but it does give her more of a purpose than just to exist and hang around. It finally fixes the key difference (and problem) between Pops and Ruby as characters, as Pops has always felt like a fully-fleshed character who exists even when he’s not onscreen, while Ruby most definitely has not. This one episode provides the most character development the character has ever had. Finally.
Plus, Jenifer Lewis knocks the entire episode out of the park with her line delivery, whether it’s ordering fast food through a pole, telling her likes or dislikes, or explaining the dating site as Ratch:
“RatchOnly.com. It’s for women of that certain ratchet lifestyle.”