Lady Dynamite is getting bigger to get smaller, and it’s dazzling

“Here’s to being a team and to not having secrets!”
If you’d told me three years ago that True Detective’s Dewall was going to be my new TV crush and half of my only OTP, I would’ve said “… yeah, that checks out, I’m pretty creepy.” But Lady Dynamite’s Scott Marvel Cassidy isn’t creepy at all.
Scott went from being Maria’s intended one-Vaginismus-stand to being her other half with remarkable ease, thanks in large part to Ólafur Darri Ólafsson’s unpretentious portrayal. As he’s written, Scott might come across as a flat caricature propping up Maria, but with Ólafsson’s grounded, warm presence, his half of their regular expository epilogues sounds as earnest and true as Maria’s. I’d expect no less from a graduate of Exposition University. (Go, Pipes!)
Maria Bamford’s performance, from the twinkle in her eye to the peace in her face when she looks at her on-screen husband, clinches it. On the show, Maria likes to remind Bruce that she’s a comedian, not a dramatic actor, but Bamford makes Maria’s love for Scott look real and comfortable… and real, real comfortable. Together, they’re are a powerhouse of joyous affection, compassionate problem-solving, and meaningful personal growth. They’re a team.
Their union has supplanted the central relationship of Lady Dynamite’s first season, the team of Maria and Bert, and that’s okay. Bert and Blueberry will always be important in Maria’s life, and now in Scott’s. So will her parents, and so will her friends. But Lady Dynamite’s second season is thoughtfully, delicately exploring Maria’s shift from learning to ride her rocky psychological roller-coaster to managing a much more mundane, but no less challenging, “normal” life.
“Whenever we’re together, nothing can get me down,” Maria tells Bruce as “Kids Have To Dance” begins. With Scott, even errands seem
festive. (“We got stamps!”) But when disaster strikes, Maria reverts to old patterns, trying to solve problems by herself instead of as a team… and trying to solve everyone else’s problems, not her own.
More than ever, it looks like both the flash-forwards and the flashbacks of season two aren’t objective reality, but filtered through (and set off-kilter by) Maria’s imagination. (One hint of this is a passing remark in “Fridge Over Troubled Daughter,” when Marilyn impossibly foretells Bill’s loss of his legs.) I find myself hoping so, because the bitter invective 1987 Joel and Marilyn sling at each other is more easily explained if it’s amplified by the impressionable feelings of a teenager.
That would also explain her mother’s well-intentioned, scathing advice after Maria believes herself complicit in a stranger’s suicide. “Sweetie, it is not your fault,” Marilyn says, but immediately follows it with an indictment: “Just remember, you are responsible for the happiness of others and you just can’t make good decisions.” A kid would remember that for a lifetime… but a kid who thought that’s what her mother meant would carry those words around just as heavily.
So, when adult Maria hears about a child injured on the merciless set of a Filipino forced-dance competition—produced unwittingly by her—her first instinct, and her second, is to reach out, not lawyer up. Bruce’s advice to sit tight and shut up seems heartless, but when she yells at Scott, too, it’s clear Maria hasn’t internalized the nature of partnership. “There is no mine and yours anymore,” he tells her. “Whatever happens to you happens to me. Not only financially but emotionally.”