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A never-better Jennifer Lawrence voices Die, My Love's feral scream

The latest from Lynne Ramsay is a masterful showcase for its lead and a furious look at feminine unfulfillment.

A never-better Jennifer Lawrence voices Die, My Love's feral scream
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“We should get a cat.” This is among the first things one hears Jennifer Lawrence’s untamed Grace mutter in Lynne Ramsay’s feral, kaleidoscopic, and gorgeously unhinged Die, My Love, a scream of a film about feminine cravings gone unmet, that then explode. 

In her most fearless performances to date—the unbraced sinks and prenatal freak-outs of Mother! have nothing on her no-holds-barred turn in Ramsay’s psychosexual marital thriller—Lawrence delivers this line to her husband Jackson (a loose-limbed, unforgettable Robert Pattinson) as they inspect an isolated house that has seen better days. Framed in cinematographer Seamus McGarvey’s boxy aspect ratio, the couple peeks into the derelict space that is now their home, one that spans like train compartments in front of them, with three layers of differently patterned, retro floral wallpapers. There is a rat situation, and a feline hunter is necessary.

But who needs a cat when you have a restless Lawrence swinging for the fences on all fours, crawling, inspecting, sniffing, and scratching everything around her like an agile cheetah as she goes off the deep end in the middle of nowhere? She emits an instantly captivating and dangerous energy. That’s perhaps why Jackson had fallen in love with her in the first place. There is never any doubt that Grace has a larger-than-life, unapologetically insatiable sexual appetite, one that Jackson happily fulfills; the couple gets lost in one another’s bodies across Ramsay’s heightened and steamy intimacy scenes. Indeed, these former New Yorkers now in the sticks are so hot for each other that they can set a forest on fire—a metaphoric occurrence that Ramsay and McGarvey vividly bring to life as a bookend to their colorful movie.

Or perhaps that fire belonged only to Grace all along. Over the course of Ramsay’s plunge into the depths of womanhood and motherhood, Grace’s rural life and pregnancy slowly try to put out that fire. The hardworking and increasingly removed Jackson leaves her alone for long stretches, and their once-adventurous times under the bedsheets (and on hardwood floors and pretty much everywhere in the house that they fancy) come to a damning halt. Grace wonders if Jackson is having an affair during his long absences. Similarly, the audience wonders if an alluring biker she is obsessed with (LaKeith Stanfield) is real, or a figment of her imagination. If Coralie Fargeat’s The Substance unleashed an aging woman’s internal battles, Die, My Love releases a fury born of feminine unfulfillment, escalated by postpartum depression and loneliness. As such, the unbearably, deliciously rude Grace is a conduit for many women’s unspoken grudges, as she sinks her claws deep into Ramsay’s tale (co-written by Enda Walsh and based on an Ariana Harwicz book) and cuts it open.  

Grace’s in-laws, Pam (Sissy Spacek) and Henry (Nick Nolte), are nearby, with Pam readily and kindly available for advice and lending a listening ear. Certain scenes between Pam and Grace occasionally ground this darkly humorous film in some sense of calm. Often, however, Ramsay’s disquieting non-linear narrative fiendishly toys with the audience’s sense of time (and thus, brings them closer to Grace’s loose headspace).

There is never any question of whether or not she loves her baby—she does, with a deep connection. And still, she gives up on housework, snaps at people (one episode at a supermarket register is especially memorable and uncomfortably funny), sheds her clothes freely, and talks to herself like Travis Bickle about to detonate. In providing the triumphant Lawrence an unreserved playground, Die, My Love is no exception in Ramsay’s filmography—We Need To Talk About Kevin gave Tilda Swinton one of the most memorable performances of her storied career, and You Were Never Really Here cut a brooding Joaquin Phoenix loose.

If it weren’t for the occasional glimpses into life outside of Grace and Jackson’s home (and mentions of modern conveniences like online yoga classes), one might think that Die, My Love is set in olden times thanks to Tim Grimes’ timeless and richly colorful production design choices, and Catherine George’s vintage costuming. Often, on the couple’s grounds, one sees the makings of something like a Western, with a rifle-toting Grace standing tall like a frontierswoman against McGarvey’s glorious nighttime lensing, whipping a flyswatter around loudly buzzing mosquitoes. This studiously ageless quality works both visually, and on a visceral level—perhaps the time period doesn’t matter when understanding a sexually frustrated woman’s enduring struggles.

By the end of a splendidly bonkers ride, Grace and Jackson sing a hilarious duet of “In Spite Of Ourselves” (as each other’s babies and honeys). Ramsay lets her film, and her characters, exhale just a little. But there is a lot of earned wisdom and lived-in pain in that exhale, and in the entirety of Ramsay’s masterwork.

Director: Lynne Ramsay
Writer: Enda Walsh, Lynne Ramsay, Alice Birch
Starring: Jennifer Lawrence, Robert Pattinson, LaKeith Stanfield, Sissy Spacek, Nick Nolte
Release Date: May 17, 2025 (Cannes)

 
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