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Age takes everyone to the same place in Jim Jarmusch's tepid Father Mother Sister Brother

Jarmusch finds resonant motifs in his three-part anthology about families growing old, but it's too stiff to ever truly be emotional.

Age takes everyone to the same place in Jim Jarmusch's tepid Father Mother Sister Brother

Despite what the title may imply, Jim Jarmusch’s Father Mother Sister Brother is an anthology film broken into three chapters. The first story centers on a father, the second on a mother, and the third on the absence of both and its effect on the two adult children they’ve left behind. A decade since Paterson, Jarmusch has comfortably embraced a stilted late style full of questionable dialogue and visible loose ends: laughably obvious green-screen backgrounds; the idea that the Luxembourgish-German Vicky Krieps is actually a native Brit who just lived in Brussels for too long. But the minimalist, searching humanism that has defined the director’s work since Permanent Vacation cannot be wrenched from his filmmaking ethos with age. Jarmusch’s characters are still driving, still going somewhere, still looking for something.

It begins in America with Father (a muttering Tom Waits) preparing for the imminent arrival of his two children by curiously covering up his spotless designer couch. Emily (Mayim Bialik) and Jeff (Adam Driver) drive together on the winding woodland road to visit the father they haven’t seen in two years, who is constantly beset by money troubles that Jeff is always more than willing to bail him out of. This is much to the displeasure of the uptight Emily, an annoying character whose portrayal by Bialik would be even more grating if it didn’t also feel apt. (Jarmusch is possibly the only person who was sad when she was booted as host from Jeopardy. But what does he think of The Big Bang Theory?) 

Next up, Mother (a poised Charlotte Rampling) is a posh Brit waiting on teatime with her daughters, Timothea “Tim” (Cate Blanchett) and Lilith (Vicky Krieps). It’s the only time she sees her daughters all year despite them both moving to Dublin to be closer to her, and like Emily and Jeff, there is a cold schism between the three that feels at odds with the love they otherwise profess to their parents.

Jarmusch playfully reuses dialogue, imagery, and plot points in recurring motifs: an overheard shot of cups filled with tea; the toasting of water glasses and the questioning if it’s bad luck; accidental outfit coordination; and the British idiom “Bob’s your uncle.” The first two chapters are the most thematically similar, with two sets of siblings traveling to spend time with a parent that they don’t visit with any regularity, the overt unwillingness from both offspring to go, the awkwardness of somehow struggling to find conversation with a person who has known you from the moment of birth. The most compelling parts of the first two chapters are the horrifically uneasy pauses that fill up the room, tense moments of silence where none of the parties know what to say. Waits is the clear standout of Father Mother Sister Brother, playing up the fragility of his 75 years, tapping into the type of elderly rambling that so perfectly concerns his offspring. 

But there is also a throughline of deceit, and at least one character in each of the three stories has something to hide. Father puts on a performance of teetering mental lucidity, financial insecurity, and domestic disarray to hide his suave second life. Lilth maintains the façade of a successful businesswoman as she claims her ride with her girlfriend (Sarah Greene) was an Uber taken because her Lexus is in the shop. And for orphaned adult twins Skye (Indya Moore) and Billy (Luka Sabbat), their parents had a history of forging documents to get around various bureaucratic red tape. 

The third story of Sister-Brother brings everything home, portraying how, sooner rather than later, one’s parents will not be around for their children to be annoyed at anymore. The visits once found to be a tedious and uncomfortable nuisance will cease forever, and much of their lives will forever remain a mystery. Their home will be empty, their belongings will go to storage, or be sold or given away.

However, the touching note that the film ends on would be far more impactful if its final chapter wasn’t also the most irritating. The performances from Sabbat and Moore are the weakest of the ensemble, and their dialogue isn’t much better. The cringe-inducing melodrama that defines the interactions between Skye and Billy concludes Father Mother Sister Brother with a thud instead of, if not a bang, then a glimmer. 

Father Mother Sister Brother ends up a tepid film, lost in the repetition of light jokes and slo-mo footage of teenage skateboarders, even if the truths at its core are sharp and universal. Maybe the only thing that age brings is the unspoken understanding that most families will go to the grave without ever truly knowing the full extent of their kin. Father Mother Sister Brother depicts with earnest melancholy the things taken for granted in life that don’t become real until after death, but its stiffness keeps it from being a work of true emotional significance.

Director: Jim Jarmusch
Writer: Jim Jarmusch
Starring: Tom Waits, Adam Driver, Mayim Bialik, Charlotte Rampling, Cate Blanchett, Vicky Krieps, Sarah Greene, Indya Moore, Luka Sabbat
Release Date: December 24, 2025

 
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